Proverbs 31 talks about a woman clothed with strength and dignity. This is the only woman fit to be the wife of a King.
Men are frequently lured, while under the influence of alcohol and drugs, into the bedrooms of women without dignity. If I’m not mistaken, men go to bars, with the intention of picking up a woman.
Not surprisingly, many women go to bars to find a man.
The man is looking for sex. The woman is looking for a man to love her. One will be easily found, and the other will most likely be left -forgotten!
Why do women search for men, in a den of lust? Why would any women look for love, where sex is on the menu -served up in a glass of poison? Do we truly expect to find faithfulness, dependability, and a man of dignity?
Remember, a man without dignity -will never be a good husband for a Queen. What? You’re not a queen? Well, my dear -you should be! We are all kings and queens -for we rule our own selves by the freedom of choice. Is having a man -more important than the choice to walk with dignity?
In the 1800’s, women fought to prevent their husbands from drinking. Some would protest in front of bars. A drunken man, was of little use in their family. Gambling, adultery, and poor choices -kept families from thriving.
Eventually, just as today, the fight began to make a change. It appears; men find the pull to drink –compelling. Prohibition was unsuccessful -as a new world of underground drinking became the modern wave of choice.
Unfortunately, women succumbed to the same temptations. As with most things, evil begets evil -and these women found what they were looking for. What did they find? They discovered what it was like to be used, tarnished, beaten, owned, and some even died. Yeah, yeah, yeah -women have always been treated that way.
You’re right -but now, they are choosing this lifestyle, rather than being forced into it. Why is it, we fought to be equal -only to dive into the grotesque, putrid, and lowly life of the drunken fool?
We are the strength, the very heart of the family -the backbone of humanity. It was not the man -chosen to give birth. We are the Queens of this earth. Be a Queen, and carry your dignity with pride. Do not grovel at the feet of a man -who does not deserve to have your feet walk in his path. When will we begin to demand -to share our bed, I think…with a man who is a King?