All posts tagged: love

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Romance.  Where do we find it?  How do we grasp it?  Why do we desire it?  Ah, romance is at the heart of every woman.  A love affair must initiate with one of the various methods of romance to woo a woman’s heart.  Passion.  Ardor. Love. Sex. Eroticism. Adventure. Sensation. Fascination. Tragedy. Fantasy. Even Friendship.  Passion – We thirst for passion.  A woman longs for that moment when the need within her defeats her rationale.  A man who can tenderly induce us into his kingdom and explore our most secret spaces will be recompensed with our most luscious desires fulfilled.  Ardor – A man devoted to his woman will long find her by his side.  She will delight him with her desires to appease his every need.  A devoted man will never allow his woman to question his devoutness, or allow it to slip away.  This man will diligently profess his love with every action he presents before her. Love – Love is a two-edged sword since we can declare love and then let it …

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This time, I have two quotes that I wanted to expound upon, together.  Make sure you thank, Sourav Adhikari, for bringing these amazing quotes to our attention. “To be happy, we must not be too concerned with others.” –Albert Camus & “There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.” –Epictetus. Let there be no mistake in me writing these two quotes -these two did not bring me happiness -only sorrow for those who believe them. Happiness cannot be found, in self.  We must give of ourselves, to find true happiness.  When we shy away from the sorrow of others, we may think we are happy -but we have denied ourselves the joy of loving another -even in the very worst of times.  Loving them so much, that in losing them, we feel blessed. You ask, how can we feel blessed by the lose of another?  I’ll tell you!  When you give your heart, time, effort, and prayers -to another, someone …

Sex = Love or Sex is Just Sex -Women Only!

I love talking with DaleCooper57.  He will keep your thinking on the edge of thought. Dale believes that in today’s modern values -there are nearly as many women going to bars, looking for sex -as men. I believe, nearly all women will tell a man what he wants to hear -for love! Dale believes that women do not equate sex with a chance at love. I believe, women have sex (not only for the high), in the hopes of it turning into love. Which one of us is right, ladies?  Men, you may comment -but your voice doesn’t count.

Just Jot It January 24

Just Jot It January 24th – Compelled – We’re almost there!   Jot -Compelled Proverbs 31 talks about a woman clothed with strength and dignity.  This is the only woman fit to be the wife of a King. Men are frequently lured, while under the influence of alcohol and drugs, into the bedrooms of women without dignity.  If I’m not mistaken, men go to bars, with the intention of picking up a woman. Not surprisingly, many women go to bars to find a man. The man is looking for sex.  The woman is looking for a man to love her.  One will be easily found, and the other will most likely be left -forgotten! Why do women search for men, in a den of lust?  Why would any women look for love, where sex is on the menu -served up in a glass of poison?  Do we truly expect to find faithfulness, dependability, and a man of dignity? Remember, a man without dignity -will never be a good husband for a Queen.  What?  You’re not a queen?  …

Language

I was raised in the 60’s & 70’s, when everything was about love and peace.  Both are a universal language -I sure wished we would feel it more for one another.  I thought about the word LOVE.  It is such an amazing four letter word, with such power behind its meaning.  I pretty sure, the whole world has some knowledge of the way we Americans refer to this emotion.  But what about other countries.  Do we use their version of love?  Do we know what it is?  Will it have the same impact on us, just hearing it?  Let’s find out. With the exception of the first 7 -which I already knew, the rest came from wordhippo.com.  The ones I know are probably translated “I love you!” instead of just the word “love.” Korean’s say: Saranghaeyo Japanese say: Aishiteru Chinese say: 喜爱 Xǐ’ài  I know this word as (even though not sure of writing, so here is the sound) Whiney Wi Ni Ee something like this.  The I is long. French say: Je t’aime (any word in …

Just Jot It January 11

Just Jot It January 11th – Effortless   Jot – Effortless What can be farther from effortless, then the effort to write about this word?  Should I tell you the things I find effortless? What in the world would those be?  Everything in my life -takes effort.  Everything about me is the opposite of effortlessness.  I am demanding, challenging, far from simple, and anything but easy to get along with. Everything that is effortless, is what I give the most effort too.  My love for my children, my husband, my mother, sister and God.  Not in that exact order! It is easy to love them, but in loving them -I must push myself to show them the fullness of that love.  Cooking meals from scratch, making quilts the kids can pass down, writing letters, so they can hold memories of the years we spent together.  I leave small notes so my husband will remember he is my one love, forever,  and ironing his clothes (not because he asks me too, but because I want him to feel sharp and proud).  I …